Former League Presidents Nancy Little and Trevor

With Convention 2009 just 2 weeks away, I thought it timely to present this month's featured former League Presidents. They were very active in the League and submitted a 1979 Convention photo with their stories. Although we have other married retreat couples (including me) these are the only two former League Presidents who are currently a married couple: Nancy Little and Trevor

Nancy served 1983 - 1985

Trevor served 1976, 1979 - 1981

Where are they now?

Nancy: When I was President of the League it was mid-'80s and it was the ANCL back then. Yes, I'm married to a former president. I met Trevor in 1979 at Convention in Urbana, OH. He remembers meeting me earlier than that but I don't. If we met earlier than 1979 it was probably at Blairhaven in S. Duxbury, MA where he was lifeguard for a few years in the '70s and I was a camper. We've been married for 10 years.

So, where am I now? I'm about to start graduate school for a Masters in Library Science at Simmons College in late January. The main campus of Simmons is in Boston, MA. They have a part-time program on the campus of Mount Holyoke College in South Hadley, MA, which is 20 minutes from my home in Hatfield, MA (Western MA). Since school doesn't start for another 6 weeks at least, I'm enjoying the "time off". Lately I spend lots of time on my latest passion, crochet. I learned to crochet last winter and I'm hooked! I'm on Ravelry if anyone's interested.

I'm still involved with our church on a national and state level. I'm currently the president of the Alliance of New Church Women, North America. Visit our blog at www.womensalliance.blogspot.com! The Alliance's main purpose is to raise money to support church programs. We raise money for camps, youth league, missions, new churches, etc. I also serve on the Executive Committee of the MA Association of the New Jerusalem (that's the state level). We meet once a month, generally at the "other end of the state". Since 2003 I've been the Registrar of the Fryeburg New Church Assembly in Fryeburg, Maine where many of the East Coast Leaguers have attended camp in August or a retreat.

I loved being a part of the League! I had so much fun at retreats, conventions, and camps! I've made life-long friends and even met my husband. Some of my closest friends are people that I met through the League. Lee Dyer (we knew her as Muff Richardson back then) of Fryeburg, Maine - Alex's mom - she's one of my closest friends. We met at that same convention in Urbana, Ohio in 1979. We see each other every summer at Fryeburg. There are many more close friends that I've made because of my involvement with the League.

Trevor: I was one of a small group of teens who banded together at then League president Julie Rankin's instigation at the first "modern era" retreat at the Fryeburg Church in the beginning of the 70's with the specific purpose of revitalizing the League. We re-started the League Journal (renamed "Clear Blue Sky"); re-started League houseparties (renamed "retreats"), re-started local Leagues (called "local Leagues") at more than a dozen churches across the continent, came up with the Regional Officers concept, and strongly promoted teens attending Convention... all things (I think(?)) that are still vital in today's League.

Trevor and Nancy Now

Trevor giving the League President's address on the floor of Convention in 1979

(with Nancy wondering if he is ever going to finish)

A Jolt of Love: Reflections on the 2009 Memorial Day SCYL Retreat

by Rev. Dave, SCYL League Chaplain

I never fail to be impressed with how quickly and how deeply bonds of trust and friendship develop at teen retreats. They meet for only a few days only a few times a year, yet many feel that the friendships they form at retreats are more meaningful than those they form over years in school. And I found myself imperceptively drawn into the sphere of mutual love that all the participants are drawn into—staff, ministers, drivers, and the teens. This was made apparent to me when I departed and faced the world again. The sensitivity, the kindness, the openness are all dear qualities that can be so lacking in our interactions with the world.

I find that it is the religious center of the retreats that open up sacred space for such intimacies to develop. Teens find God in their own way, and that opens their hearts to each other. They have commented on how much they like the whole retreat, meaning the Frisbee games, mutual interaction, and the religious sessions.

Eighteen teens participated in the 2009 SCYL Memorial Day weekend retreat at the Fryeburg New Church Assembly. This year we had four ministers who led sessions. Our theme was “The Bible: What’s In It For Me?” The ministers talked about how Bible stories relate to a person’s spiritual development through correspondences. I presented the first session on the creation story. Rev. Ken Turley presented on the story of Samson and Delilah. Some of the comments that emerged were why Samson ended up telling Delilah the real secret of his strength after she had betrayed him two previous times. Rev. Lee Woofenden talked about the story of the flood and related it to self image and God’s forgiveness and love to everyone. Sunday morning we rode up to the Fryeburg Church of the New Jerusalem for the worship service where we listened to Rev. Ken discuss the story in Revelation 14. At the worship service, two teens (Janice and Nina) performed a beautiful acoustic guitar duet of “I Will Follow You into the Dark”. Later that afternoon, Rev. Jen Tafel and Kurt Fekete led a session in which the teens randomly picked a Bible story for them to interpret on their own through art, drama, or any other way they wished. The staff were treated to paintings, a puzzle they created, a song they wrote and performed, and personal interpretations they came up with themselves.

The retreat ended with a communion service conducted by Rev. Jen and myself. Teens participated by reading the Bible and a poem Rev. Jen brought to the service. They also provided guitar music and vocal harmonies as an introit and during communion. And there were tears. Tears of love and tears from those who would be moving on in life as they passed the teen age into adulthood.

The dear friendships that develop at these retreats carry on outside the several meetings held throughout the year. Teens renew their friendships at Fryeburg Assembly and Almont summer camps and stay in contact through the internet, sharing pictures and words. In every sense, charity comes alive at retreats and this year was no different. The presence of God filled the retreat participants with affection and mutual care—from new teens to drivers and staff, and in me. While I put considerable time and work into my own contribution to this Memorial Day retreat, I came away gifted with much, much more than I came with. I feel truly blessed to join in the spirit of youth retreats as their Chaplain, in this very important ministry.

Memorial Weekend Retreat Memories

The Memorial Day Weekend retreat was spectacular! Here's what struck me and stuck to me.

Sonia's amazing cooking and enlightenment ~ Janice and Nina's duet at church ~ Ultimate! ~ Kevin and Zach taking a leap of faith to come to Maine ~ The dedication of the drivers from the Midwest ~ Your teen session and what you taught me ~ Nina and Holly acting out Rent ~ Dopey r us ~ Singing graces ~ Cody and Gibby hanging out together ~ Fire ~ Communion Worship Service ~ Alex's return after prom ~ Your love for each other

What stuck to you?

God's Gifts

The May edition of the Chaplain's Corner by Pastor Dave, SCYL Chaplain

We work hard to achieve the good things in our life. So we can be tempted to take pride in our achievements. But in fact, even though it doesn’t look like it, everything we have is a gift from God. Our very life itself isn’t our own. We live because God’s love makes us alive. We can get discouraged when things we want don’t come through for us. But if we take a moment and reflect on what we do have, our whole attitude changes. Do you have a roof over your head? Do you have food to eat? Can you breathe? Are you alive? When we look at the basic things that God freely gives us we have so much to be grateful for.

But we still need to make the effort. We still need to figure out what we think is best for us, and to pursue it. We also need to ask for God’s guidance. God influences our thinking so that when we are open to God, and when we ask God for help, we make better decisions.

No one is more unhappy and frustrated than someone who can’t accept things the way they are. Some want to be like a Hollywood director and tell everybody where to stand, what to say, and how to move. When the world doesn’t cooperate the director gets frustrated and angry.

Spiritual life is a dialogue between our actions and the world’s reaction. Act as if everything depends on your decisions. Then pray as if everything depends on God. And don’t forget to give thanks for the good things God gives you.

4 Days Until the Memorial Day Weekend Retreat!

The big retreat in Fryeburg, Maine is in 4 days. Don't forget to let me know that you are coming. If you are still thinking about it, hope you decide to join us. This is going to be a great retreat.

Maine Youth Group Play

We concluded our Maine Youth Group dinner gatherings May 3rd with an outdoor afternoon at the playground, laughing, throwing the Frisbee and running an obstacle course. We had a cookout back at the church and finished with an interesting game. I found lyrics from song by the rock band Journey and took words from Jesus (The Message translation) and challenged the teens to play "who said it", Journey or Jesus. Thought I'd post a few to the blog to give everyone a chance to play at home. Look for the answers soon.



You are the queen of many faces. How you can move me with just one glance?

These things I do, it's all because of you.

How many times do I have to go over these things? How much longer do I have to put up with this?

Saints or sinners, take no prisoners. What's left after you fall? No not much.

You're asking the wrong question. You're looking for someone to blame.

You are masters at making yourselves look good in front of others, but God knows what's behind the appearance.

Our love remains the same, God knows we've had our share of saving grace.

Walk by the light you have so darkness doesn't destroy you.

You're looking right at me and you don't see me.

But none of you are living it. So why are you trying to kill me?

I am like...

As part of our Earth Day retreat in Kitchener, Ontario the teens wrote some inspired poetry. They each chose a word related to the earth and then wrote a poem about how they are similar to that word starting, "I am like...". Here are a couple of them.

I am like the sun
I am bright
I am warm-full
I am big
I rise in the morning
I set in the evening
I am like the sun

I am like a flood
I show up unexpected
I am always exciting
I normally cause disruption
I always try to give back to the earth
I can be good or bad
I am like a flood

I am like the clouds
simply drifting
simply moving
simply existing
simply there
I am like the clouds